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Dealbreakers- Being Rude to Wait Staff

I don’t care who you are. I don’t care how beautiful you are. I don’t care how charming and darling you are. If you are rude to wait staff, I will throw down the money for my meal and I will fucking leave(Leaving someone with the bill is detestable).

Being rude to wait staff shows you exactly what kind of person that you’re dealing with. They think people are beneath them and pathetic. They don’t give baseline respect. They will be a shit to you at some point in the future.

Being that we should move away from conscripted military service, we should have people do mandatory service jobs. Make them learn how to live like the common people. You wouldn’t have to do it for a year, you could give them three months and they would learn not to be assholes. I wonder how long that would take to work the Karen attitude out of our society. I think give it a generation or two for the old Karens to die and then we could move on as a far nicer and kinder world.

But of course, there are some people that don’t learn understanding from suffering and decide to inflict their pain on others. That could throw a wrench into the whole thing.

That brings me back to the whole thing about being rude to service workers. Like, I would like to think that it wasn’t just my past in the service industry that makes me a good person and that I’m not rude to them. It’s stupid in general to be rude to someone who has access to your food. Not that I think that all wait staff is going to do bad things to the food if they can. I think it’s just so easy.

But a restaurant while not a house is still someone’s property and livelihood. They invited you in and you’re going to be rude to them?

It just further infuriates me when you get TikTokers going into stores and causing a mess. They turn them into human props because they know that they can’t do anything to them. It reminds me of Homer and the Amish.

Is that who you want to be like? Homer Simpson?